Lingam Massage: Where Consciousness Sparks
Ling am massage is a type of tantra massage that focuses mainly on the male reproductive organ, i.e., phallus[penis]. Like, the other massage styles, it was evolved in the ancient oriental world.
This rub technique is performed by two couples, partners or masseuses, and a client who wants or aspires to experience the bliss of full-mindedness or consciousness.
In this rub style, while the female partner manipulates the bodywork, her partner [the man] stays passive, except that, he adjusts his body in a comfortable way, which helps him to achieve effective lingam massage.
Lingam massage has many benefits. Some of these include boosting consciousness, enhancing libido, releasing stress and anxiety, and many more others.
If you want to learn more about lingam massage? Keep reading our blog post.
What is lingam massage?
Lingam massage is an ancient massage technique that evolves in the ancient oriental world. Lingam means “wand of light” for male genitalia or phallus/penis/, in an old Hindu language.
It is one of the kinds of tantra massages that primarily targets the male penis. While tantra massage encompasses the entire body, lingam massage focuses only on the male genitalia.
It is a very popular style of rub in western countries. It is used and applied to awaken the dormant/sleeping sexual energy amassed in the male penis.
According to Asian belief, we have numerous energies all over our bodies. They call this energy QI or CHI. The phallus too is also the source of this sacred energy.
The principles and themes of Lingam massage are derived from the concepts of the old tantra and yoga massage and meditative discipline. To learn more on lingam massage, Click Here.
The overall game of the lingam massage is encircled within the penis and its surroundings. The scrotum, the balls, the perineum, the prostate areas, and the pubic areas are all the target points of this rub technique.
Origin of lingam massage
Lingam massage is believed to be originated from the ancient eastern world. Especially, ancient Indians and Chinese were pioneers in introducing this rub technique to the world.
If you go back and tried to track the history of the ancient eastern world, you may find that, they had a profound bond, connections, and interactions with the cosmic nature.
All their disciplines and philosophies are poured and based on the belief of this mighty energy. They claim that humans have/own a tremendous energy source amassed with in their body. The same is true for the phallus[penis].
Ancient Hindus were using different depictions to sculpture Shiva, which represent the lingam Shiva. This Shiva is believed to interact and spoke with the god Shiva.
This Shiva/ the god spot/ is believed to be amassed with the god energy, which is the source of all creatures. According to the ancient gurus, honoring and worshiping this spot is the beginning of wisdom and an enhanced consciousness.
As it is believed to be the source of all creatures, they were worshiping it like the temples, and the way to sanctuary and heavenly. Indeed, it deserves.
How to prepare for lingam massage
Plan: prepare, time, and place
Before you directly dive to give/get lingam massage, creating a beautiful and impressive environment is important. This condition makes the bodywork to lingam massage more enjoyable.
What makes the ambience more enjoyable? Just, ignite some good scented candles, make the light dim, and open some soft music’s. All these, combined, makes your bodywork more pleasurable and exciting.
To be on the safe way, and keep your privacy, it is better to have private rooms. The bed should be clean, well-adjusted, and prepared with fresh sheets.
The Receiver-and Giver:
In order to have/achieve effective lingam rub, both the receiver and giver should be well-prepared psychologically and physically prior to the bodywork.
In fact, in some cultures and traditions, there might be a feeling of shame, shyness and taboos, in which, while you have the desire to act, but, you may be hindered back due to the harmful laws, norms and values already instilled.
And others may become and feel shame towards doing it. One should break all these harmful traditions, cultures, and bad values. Avoid all these stuff of hindrance and shyness and get well-prepared morally, psychologically and physically. These are the key prerequisites to attain maximum bliss to lingam rub.
Materials needed for lingam massage:
Towel, Pillow, And Oil
To achieve effective lingam rub, massage oils are mandatory. These oils should be selected based on their comfort ability and scent ability towards the receiver to have best fun and pleasure with lingham massage.
And these should also be prepared accordingly before any procedure is commenced. Coconut oil is preferable, because it has a very pleasing taste/smell. Or you can opt other natural oils you may prefer like almond oil, or olive oil.
How to give/do lingam massage
Lingam massage can be done in two ways
- By the proprietor of the penis, by using tantric masturbation or
- By other therapist or partner
We have stated it before that, in lingam massage, the focus areas are the penis, the scrotum, the prostate/ also known as the sacred spot/ and the perineal areas.
Lingam massage is performed with the help of our hand as well as oil. But, before you directly jump to the procedure, there are certain conditions that, you have to fix. These include:
Lie on the back, you can use cushion for supporting your body. Both legs should be widely open and knees bend.
This / breathe/makes tantra lingam massage unique from having normal sex. Here, breathing has extra advantages like, it will create a more profound feeling of love and care, it will have built more compassion and consideration with your therapist, and it will make you more enlightened and mindful. Repeat this frequently.
- Relax and meditate together
- Sit in b/n the receiver’s legs
- Start massaging from the external or surrounding areas. Begin rubbing gently with chest, nipples, stomach, legs, and thighs. The lower back, lumbar vertebrate, and coccyx are also included.
- Next, reach to the pubic area and pelvic areas, perineum areas, found in b/n the anus and the penis and nearby areas. Then to testicles.
- Start rubbing the long shaft areas of the penis from the bottom up to the tip of the head where sensitive nerve endings are found. Rub it frequently. In the middle of the procedure, the penis may erect or cool down, but, no worries, it will regain it’s normal, just repeat it. Implement kneading and stroking styles.
- Praise and communicate what you see and feel while massaging
- Continue massaging the anal area with the help of fingers and lubricant it gently
- Monitor and control your receiver not to reach to orgasm instantly/gush/. If they seem to reach to this state, hold them back, and do it several times. This off and on before orgasm helps your partner to achieve and have a long-lasting final intense orgasm.
- Next, continue pressing the prostate area and stimulate it. The prostate is a gland found deep within the anus. Massage it by placing your finger via the internal rectum.
- Finally, let your partner reach orgasm and ejaculate. This is the state where maximum enlightenment and pleasure come into being.
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Benefits of lingam massage
Lingam massage has both therapeutic and relaxing effects/benefits on individuals/. Even though both Lingam massage and happy ending massage focuses on the phallus[penis], and have almost similar benefits.
However, there is one factor that differentiates each one, i.e., in lingam massage, the goal of therapy is to experience and achieve spiritual enlightenment not to experience orgasm.
But, in happy ending massage, the goal of therapy is focused on realizing and experiencing orgasm. In general, the therapeutic and relaxing benefits of lingam massage include the following benefits.
- It facilitates full-body healing from trauma
- Enhance Longer and better erection
- Boost sexual performance to attain maximum stamina
- To reduce stress all over the body
- To overcome premature ejaculation
- To better Prolong erection and enhance libido
- Reduce risk of chronic illness
- To get enlightenment
- Conscious loving contact with his masculinity
- Improve fertility and well-being
- To increase blood circulation to genitalia
- To Attain high sexual and spiritual awakens
- To awake the creative sexual energy
- Improves overall health and well-being
- Improves quality of life
N: B: the overall goal is not to achieve orgasm. It is a way to attain maximum sexual experience and spiritual enlightenment.
In conclusion, humans were experiencing lingam massage starting from the ancient times. It was/is the art and wisdom of ancient Hindus and Chinese’s.
As Lingam massage signifies the male masculinity, it is specifically being performed targeting the male genitalia, penis and its surroundings.
It brings many benefits to the man who experiences this rub style. It releases tension, build up sexual energy, to awaken and enhance spiritual enlightenment and so on.
Saying this all, Dear readers/visitors, if you have any questions, suggestions or corrective critics, please you are well come and leave a comment.